I tend to agree with Ross' comment. I listen for the life of the Spirit but found mostly legalism in Jonathan's reply/article. I know Jonathan's intentions were good! I would encourage the lady to do all she can, with the help of the Lord, to honor her parents. But if that doesn't bring the desired results, ask the Lord who else in the Body of Christ will help her; some Godly "older" Christian couple (not necessarily really old, but mature in the Lord). The Lord will make a way!